When one door closes...

"When one door closes, another is waiting to be opened.. you just haven't seen it yet"

Hey my lovelies

Well, to be honest I could quite happily just leave that quote as today's blog as I think it's pretty self explanatory, but I won't ;-)

We speak so much about going after our dreams, making 'it' happen etc. but what should we do when doors are constantly being closed, the answer is constantly no, the relationships constantly fail and life just doesn't feel too good? Give up? Hmmm, I'm sure that sometimes would seem to be the easiest option? I know there has been more than a few days where the easy option has seemed the best option in my life, but there's something inside that spurs me on! Sorry we are not 'giver upers' on this blog so giving up is not an option ;-)

What we must do is continue to persevere, self reflect and maybe explore alternative options.

If you can see and feel that you are able to achieve that job, buy that house and thrive in a loving relationship then continue to work towards the dream/vision. (There may be other things but these are the few common ones that I've chosen to highlight)

Too often I/we hold on to what might have been - what we feel should have been, when the right thing is waiting for us elsewhere. We have to be careful that we don't miss it!

In the meantime we can also work on developing the skills and attributes that will help us achieve what we desire.

Without sounding too airy fairy and pie in the sky - we have got to remain positive! Let's not get disheartened, upset or down in the dumps but let's learn from what we may have done wrong and how to change it in order to become a better person and more importantly the 'right' person for when the opportunity comes along.

Take care and stay blessed.

N xx